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How To Handle Stupid People
In 1976, an Italian economic historian named Carlo Cipolla wrote a short essay called The Basic Laws of Human Stupidity. He meant it partly as a joke, and it has been passed around for decades. But underneath humor is one of the most useful definitions I’ve ever seen. Cipolla didn’t
September 22, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Love And The Inner Child
Relationships can feel like a kind of reparenting for the parts of us we never really outgrew, even if we never say it that way. We become adults. We learn how to take care of ourselves, make decisions, work, pay bills, and pretend we have everything under control. But there
September 22, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Start As You Are
There is always a reason to wait. You tell yourself you’ll start when you feel more confident. When you have more time. When you know exactly what you’re doing. When you become more disciplined. When life feels a little easier. So you wait. And another day passes. Then another. Until
September 22, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Career Pivoting and Advancement Tips
Most people look at their career like a romantic relationship. You’ve put years into it. You’ve given it your energy, your time, your identity. So when you think about leaving, it feels like a breakup. Like you’re walking away from everything and starting completely fresh. But that’s not how it
September 20, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
One Tiny Habit
When you observe people on the first day of a new goal, how excited are they? They purchase a journal, install a productivity app and videos motivational videos and they vow that this time they will make it better. After a few weeks, the notebook sits on the shelf, the
September 20, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
How To Read To Change
You read a book about habits. You like it. You tell yourself: “This is great! I’ll apply this tomorrow.” You read an article about productivity. You feel like you learned something new. You save it to your list. You send the link to a friend. You mark three more articles
September 20, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo