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The Relationship Cycle
Sometimes when it comes to love, experience is the best teacher. Even in life, somehow, we end up learning things the hard way. Maybe even the most painful way and as much as we wish we could have learned them without having to lose someone, without having to cry, without
September 25, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
A Loon Is After Me
He said: Remember that polycule debacle? Pay attention to how loonies talk, and you will notice a pattern. They claim to be feminists, and this naturally means they will not behave like a typical female with feminine virtues. This feminist tag gives them the right to be aggressive when they
September 25, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Good Things Take Time
Sometimes life is not saying “no” – it is simply asking us to wait for the right moment. There are seasons in life when everything seems to move slowly. We watch others reach their dreams while we are still waiting. We wonder why our own happiness has not arrived yet.
September 25, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Breaking Negative Behavioural Patterns
For years, I kept repeating the same behaviors. A lot has changed in the past three years. I’m still in the process of building a better relationship with my unconscious self. My old experiences, childhood beliefs, emotional wounds, repeated habits and forgotten fears. Psychologist Carl Jung called this the shadow
September 25, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Rejection Is Part of The Process
I was talking to a friend recently about those he dated and why he didn’t marry them. I wanted to establish a pattern about his dating process and why he hadn’t found the “One”. What I discovered, however, was that he had people he was sexually attracted to who were
September 25, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Why You Resist Change
Change sounds simple when you’re talking about it. “It’s time to move on.” “Try something new.” “Start over.” “Take a different path.” But when change actually arrives, something inside you can resist it. Even when you know your current situation isn’t making you happy. Even when you know you have
September 25, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo