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Consequences of Being A Workaholic
Despite recognising the harm, individuals trapped in cycles of excessive work struggle to slow down, experiencing anxiety, exhaustion, and burnout. I was taught and modelled that working hard is one of the clearest signs of responsibility, ambition, and love for your family. Most men have been. We are praised for
August 10, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Before You Have That Baby
I suffer from severe allergies to many common things: dust, prolonged exposure to low temperatures, perfumes, certain soaps, detergents (or any very strong smell), and some foods. When I’m exposed to some of these things, I can barely get out of bed the next day. On days like those (which
August 10, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Losing Yourself To Keep A Relationship?
Losing Yourself To Find Love? You don’t always lose yourself in dramatic ways. Sometimes, you quietly slip away through small compromises at a time, and everyone around you gets comfortable with the version of you that remains. There is a particular kind of exhaustion that comes from constantly being the
August 10, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Identifying Abusive Patterns In A Relationship
It does not start with a punch How coercive control creeps in quietly under the guise of passion, concern, and intense love. People think abuse is obvious; they picture a loud, public scene or a visible bruise, but coercive control does not announce itself with a blow to the jaw;
August 10, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
THE EXCEPTION TO THE RULE
(Psalm 32:2) I once boarded a taxi in Abuja, Nigeria. The taxi driver was not wearing his seatbelt, and I asked him why. He told me an interesting story… “A friend of mine died because he wore one”, he said. I asked him to elaborate. How so? “He had
August 10, 2026 by Haruna Daniels -
VENGEANCE
I watched an episode in a very popular Christian Television Series in the late ‘80s and early ‘90s, “Another Life”. In that episode, a lady had a beef with someone and told her friend (who was a Christian) about it. She told her Christian friend she would revenge what the
August 10, 2026 by Haruna Daniels