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The Person You Fell In Love with With Change
We usually fall in love with a snapshot. You meet someone and build a mental portrait of their best moments: the way they laugh at your jokes, the conviction with which they said they’d never go corporate, their certainty about where they wanted to live. You stay loyal to that
June 22, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Are You With An Avoidant Partner?
An avoidant partner is someone whose attachment style pushes them to create distance when closeness starts to feel like pressure, not because they stopped caring, but because intimacy reads as a threat to their independence. That distinction changes everything. You’re not dealing with rejection. You’re dealing with a nervous system
June 22, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Why Men Can’t Win Arguments
Why can’t a man win an argument with a woman he is in a relationship with? His woman’s boss will argue with her and win His woman’s father will argue with her and win His woman’s brother will argue with her and win His woman’s pastor will argue with her
June 21, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Parallel Intimacy: A Cure For Loneliness in Long-Distance Relationships
How We Learned to Be Together While Being Alone? I experienced this when I dated a lady some years ago. We were both living in separate states, and work plus other activities could sometimes keep us apart for several days or weeks. She complained of loneliness so often that we
June 21, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo