Why We Get Love Wrong
Sometimes the problem isn’t that love is hard to find. It’s that we keep looking for love in places that cannot give us the kind of relationship we actually need.
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In life, we are all brought up differently. We grow up in different homes, around different people, with different experiences, expectations, and circumstances. With this, we can end up developing
Continue readingWhen Abusers Play the Victim
My ex-wife has an Instagram account where she talks about emotional abuse and other relationship stuff. She brings guests on it where they talk about her being the victim of
Continue readingYou Are Allowed To Change
There are moments when you know something is changing. You can feel it before you can explain it. A friendship doesn’t feel the same. A place no longer feels like
Continue readingRaising Christians to Be Like Christ
A good fellowship is hard to find There are people in my congregation who don’t know any other fellowship that is like our own. This is the first fellowship they
Continue readingShow Up For Yourself
The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation. — Henry David Thoreau, Walden You Are Replaceable Everywhere Except One Place. If you are not living the life you actually
Continue readingWhen The Right One Comes
Sometimes we may not even know that we are in the middle of miracles. One of them being the miracle of suddenly being with someone who sees you, understands you,
Continue readingThe Distortion of Happiness
I have the research to prove it. In 1997, psychologists followed people through three separate trips. An experience in Europe. A thanksgiving get away. And a three-week bicycle experience across
Continue readingDeveloping Self-Awareness
“Self-awareness is the ability to see yourself clearly: your thoughts, your emotions, your motives, and your behaviors. It’s the inner mirror that allows you to understand why you do what
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