Why Men Can’t Win Arguments
Why can’t a man win an argument with a woman he is in a relationship with? His woman’s boss will argue with her and win His woman’s father will argue
Continue readingParallel Intimacy: A Cure For Loneliness in Long-Distance Relationships
How We Learned to Be Together While Being Alone? I experienced this when I dated a lady some years ago. We were both living in separate states, and work plus
Continue readingA Letter From Jos
Dear Brother Gbenga, There was a feeling I used to have when my husband was courting me. Anytime I knew I was going to meet him or that he would
Continue readingBuying Happiness
I had a sit-down with a lady. We spoke for a while. She said she told her boyfriend that she was travelling to Botswana for a two-week holiday. I asked
Continue readingThe Paradox of Modern Dating
There is a strange paradox in modern dating: the men with the strongest principles often have the hardest time building a stable personal life. In theory, it should be the
Continue readingConquering Bitterness
A few years ago, I asked my father how he was doing. He paused for a second. “Fine,” he said. Then he asked if I’d seen where he’d left his
Continue readingManaging Your Relationship
A modern man or woman will go to work on their worst day. Tired, hurt, angry, completely unmotivated — he or she still gets up, shows up, and does his
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