The Victimhood Personality
Some people don’t just experience bad things. They build a permanent residence inside them, furnish the place with old grievances, and invite everyone they meet to tour the property. Every
Continue readingBehind The Mask
The Truth We Would Rather Not Face There is a strange comfort in believing that we know ourselves. We know what we stand for, what kind of people we are,
Continue readingSelective Independence Is Hypocrisy
I was listening to a podcast in which a lady said, “I can afford to buy myself a wig for five hundred dollars, but I cannot have a man in
Continue readingWhy Men Edit Communication
Communication is one of the most important things in a relationship. At least, that’s what people say when they’re listing their requirements for a partner. They want a man who
Continue readingPolygamy Isn’t Right For A Pastor
I have no issue with polygamy as a practice in Christianity. I know most Christian men won’t practise it, but they would rather pursue other arrangements like concubinage, Cohabitation, Consensual
Continue readingPorting From Pastor To Marriage Counsellor (My reasons)
When couples have issues, they take them to the pastor for resolution. In some other climates, such cases are taken to a professional marriage counsellor. For the record, professional marriage
Continue readingBefore You Retire
Retirement is not just about choosing a number on the calendar. The right retirement age can affect your finances, health, relationships, sense of purpose, and overall happiness. Research and retirees’
Continue readingForgiveness vs Bitterness (A study)
I believe that if more people gave forgiveness a genuine chance, our world could become a kinder, more peaceful, and compassionate place. Forgiveness cannot erase injustice or undo painful experiences,
Continue readingBalancing The Till 2
Some women say they want a man who takes initiative. A man who makes plans, knows what he wants, takes responsibility, and doesn’t need to be supervised like a new
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There’s a curious trend in modern dating: some women want a man with traditional values, provided those values benefit them personally. Some men also want to have a wife who
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