-
I have a question about pedophile also please. I was listening to radio show one time, and a lady sent a message that her intended was a pedophile. She said he was a good Christian and they were keeping their relationship pure (not having sex) before marriage. She said he likes kids and she noticed that whenever he was playing with a toddler, young girl, children sha, he gets aroused. She had just noticed but had confirmed on many occasions and their wedding was in a month. Of course, the radio presenter made it about fake Christians everywhere and how she should report to the police😀. I’ve always felt the radio presenter didn’t handle it well. Somehow, I think the lady still went on with the marriage. If one was to ever notice pedophile tendencies in a friend or someone you know. How would you advise it is handled?
GSW: Report him or her. Talk to him or her to get help. The case above is not reallypedophilia. It is a I’m sleeping with a house-help. House-help is 18
-
Sir, there is statutory rape
GSW: I am not defending it. Drop your emotion and outrage. It will only lead you to making a mistake. You must judge issues with calmness. As a daughter, you
-
Bro Gbenga, I like the way you said if it were you you wouldn’t have paid that money.
GSW: I wouldn’t have paid. I will simply stay out of it. If he raises the money elsewhere, fine. If he didn’t, let him go to jail but I won’t
-
The lesson is how to remain in the place of honoring our parents through it all.
GSW: It is a must. Not optional. A must. What did I call it? You can honour your father in prison or in death or even when they are boiling
-
What about if the side choosing is as a result of what the children see going themselves. Doesn’t that still affect the children’s emotions and cause a tainted mindset?
GSW: Don’t see. Are you not listening to me at all. I will start crying. You are frustratingme o. Don’t make me cry please.
-
Is it okay for children to mediate between parents when they are having issues.
GSW: No please. Not one example of such in the Bible. Not even one. You bow yourhead and cry. And pray. And call adults or outsiders to Intervene. But you
-
Some parents have claimed the reason they stayed in a bad marriage is because of their children. Can these children when they are of age, tell the parent giving this excuse to stop staying because of them?🌚 Something like. “respectfully Mummy, this your staying hasn’t benefitted us in anyway. May be you can leave ma”😌
GSW: Ignore. That is cheap blackmail. There is a man of God here, who asked me to go talk to his parents when they were atlogger head. What wisdom! He
-
At what point sir can children report parents to the police. What of murder cases? I’ve read cases where it was the testament of their children that put sociopaths behind bars…but they were white people sha.
GSW: Children can report to another adult. Pastor, teacher, whatever
-
I’m listening to you and appreciate your wisdom. I’m just thinking out loud. From when they children are little, all through to growing up… all that is going on in the home isn’t lost on them. They might not say much, but it colours everything for them.
GSW: I agree but as they grow older, they must purge themselves of these memories. Itis a must. We all saw many things when we were growing up under our
-
Sir , she didn’t say if it’s the NGO or police that collected this money or jointly … in a few cases …they never let these stuffs go away ..they would keep making demand for more money … they tag the money (upkeep/welfare for the girl ) or even threaten to Charge the matter to court where such demands are not met.
GSW: When issues like this happen, vultures will show face and demand their due. Theymust not deny the vultures. After the family meeting, they will organize a way to keepthe