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Let’s Meet At The Well
Junior is in his twenties, he works as a cybersecurity analyst in Dundee, and spends most evenings alone. He has three other friends, two of whom are technically his cousins, and they are all in their twenties. Good-looking male with all the fundamental characteristics of the heterosexually healthy, and yet
July 3, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Why Men Are Choosing Peace
Men aren’t disappearing from dating. They’re walking away from a game that no longer feels worth the cost. Not because they’re weak. Not because they’re intimidated. Not because they “can’t handle strong women.” They’re walking away because the math is brutal, the culture is loud, and the risk is real.
July 3, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Men Want Peace
Most men don’t say this out loud, but they think it all the time. “I just want peace.” Not silence. Not obedience. Not to win. They want to come home and feel their body unclench. They want to stop bracing for the next fight. They want to feel like the
July 3, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Identifying The Green Flags
Every man knows what a red flag feels like. It hits your gut. It tightens your chest. It whispers that something is off and you are going to pay for it later. Green flags are different. They do not shout. They do not demand attention. They show up quietly, in
July 3, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Let The Poor Breathe
I took a long breath before engaging with this. Over the years, due to the nature of my work, I have come to realise that many of those who live abroad and in urban cities in Africa don’t really understand what development and advancement mean to the people in rural
July 3, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
TEACHER, DON’T TEACH ME NONSENSE!
A late maverick Nigerian Musician, Fela Anikulapo Kuti released a song with that title, “Teacher, Don’t Teach Me Nonsense”. Experience has taught me that we are all Students of Life, learning things as we age. We ALL have Teachers, Parents, Lecturers, Pastors, Influencers, Friends etc. We are also self-taught on
July 2, 2026 by Haruna Daniels