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Why Do People Cheat
Cheating in a relationship is a decision. It is not and will never be a mistake. One of the things a lot of cheats, especially the “female” cheat, hides behind is “I don’t know what came over me” or “I was not in my senses”, or “It just happened”, or
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Understanding Discernment
Someone I know recently expressed an opinion that surprised and, in some ways, disappointed me. I said to myself, “I thought he would have more discernment than that.” The experience caused me to reflect on the importance of discernment and the lack of it in our world. We know that
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Discernment Is Divine Guidance
In Matthew 16:21-23, we see an interesting scenario between Jesus and Peter. The Master had made it clear to His disciples that it was necessary for Him to go to Jerusalem, submit to an ordeal of suffering at the hands of the religious leaders, be killed, and be raised back
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Discernment Is Key
Scripture repeatedly warns us about the danger of bad counsel. The Bible reveals this in the story of Ahithophel, a man whose counsel carried such weight that it was regarded as though one had inquired at the oracle of God (2 Samuel 16:23). He was esteemed, trusted and relied upon,
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How To Lose A Good Man
Dating Stage: How To Lose A Good Man 1. Leading With Self-Centeredness There is important context for why many women arrive at dating with a “me first” orientation. Years of being disappointed, deprioritized, and emotionally abandoned by men who were not doing the work — that leaves a mark. Protecting
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Why People Cheat In Relationships
Why People Cheat 1 The relationship is struggling. There is no genuine connection; the couple is together for the sake of the kids or convenience. Often, physical intimacy is no longer present. Sometimes, someone who cheats in a struggling relationship has a hard time communicating their feelings. Or maybe they
May 19, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo