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Boundaries Make Men Feel Safe
Instead of fighting a man for not having boundaries, work on yourself and have boundaries. Let your boundaries influence his own and make sure your boundaries are true and resolute We think boundaries push men away. “If I set limits, he’ll feel rejected and leave.” But the research says
July 15, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Your Voice Is A Factor
A 2025 study in the British Journal of Psychology separated attraction into four channels: face, voice, body motion, and body odor. They had 61 people provide samples of each, and 71 others rate them. Want to know what predicted attractiveness better than appearance alone? Voice. Not by a little.
July 15, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Compatibility Is Key
A 2024 study looked at four major categories of mate preferences: physicality, compassion, competence, and compatibility. They had people choose which mattered most in both short-term and long-term contexts. For long-term relationships, men chose compatibility more than anything else. More than physicality. More than compassion. And here’s the kicker,
July 15, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Why Men Prefer Emotionally Stable Women
We all know the stereotype… men want women who are drama-free. “No crazy chicks,” right? But that’s not what the research shows. It’s deeper than that. A 2018 study by Gerlach and colleagues looked at what personality traits actually predict romantic attraction. They found that men were significantly more
July 15, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
The Unchanging God in a Changing World
We live in an age of relentless change. Technology advances at remarkable speed, political systems shift, economies fluctuate, and cultures continually redefine values and priorities. Relationships evolve, health can change unexpectedly, and human understanding is constantly being revised. What seems certain today may be questioned tomorrow. Yet amid the constant
July 13, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo