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Obligations We See As Morality
Many responsibilities feel sacred simply because you’ve carried them for so long. Most people can tell you what they believe is right and wrong. Far fewer can tell you where those beliefs came from. Some of the strongest forces shaping your life were never introduced as rules. Nobody sat the
July 20, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
I Chase Prospective Husbands Away
“I spent years wondering why emotionally unavailable men kept choosing me for short-term excitement while emotionally available men quietly disappeared. The answer wasn’t what I expected and I almost missed it because it never looked like a problem. The moment that changed everything happened in the checkout line of a
July 20, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Two Cents
Your husband was pursuing a business with some oil and gas companies in Nigeria for eight years without making any headway. He is an engineer, and he had come up with a particular design as an alternative to one of the tools used in crude oil mining. The idea was
July 20, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Escaping From Circe
Three years ago, a young man called Z was invited by the pastor of a church in Abuja to come and talk to his church members about investment opportunities and how to make money through real estate and capital market. The young man was married, comfortable and successful. He was
July 20, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Love is Mostly Not Enough
I used to think love was the final answer. Like, if you loved someone enough and if you understood them in all the soft and ugly corners of their mind, then everything would somehow fall into place. That is such a sweet little lie. One of those comforting lies people
July 20, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo