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I Chase Prospective Husbands Away
“I spent years wondering why emotionally unavailable men kept choosing me for short-term excitement while emotionally available men quietly disappeared. The answer wasn’t what I expected and I almost missed
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Two Cents
Your husband was pursuing a business with some oil and gas companies in Nigeria for eight years without making any headway. He is an engineer, and he had come up
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Escaping From Circe
Three years ago, a young man called Z was invited by the pastor of a church in Abuja to come and talk to his church members about investment opportunities and
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Love is Mostly Not Enough
I used to think love was the final answer. Like, if you loved someone enough and if you understood them in all the soft and ugly corners of their mind,
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Oversharing
There was a man who travelled to the UK to study at the age of twenty-one. His uncle, who had lived in the UK for over thirty years, took over
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Loving and Hurting
The people who hurt you most were operating at the absolute limit of what they’d ever been taught to give. You’ve spent years judging the wrong thing. The hardest people
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Why We Argue Against The Truth
Halfway through an argument, I realized the evidence had already shifted against me. I could feel it happening in real time, and I kept talking anyway. I wasn’t trying to
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Imagination and Vision
Imagination and Vision: The Dimension of Love Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God.
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Mastering The Metaphysical: Dreams and The Believer
“Metaphysics is the branch of philosophy that examines the fundamental nature of reality, including the relationship between mind and matter, between substance and attribute, and between potentiality and actuality.” The
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Eternal Security
Why Many Christians Struggle to Accept Eternal Security—And Why Scripture Teaches It Salvation Is God’s Work from Beginning to End. One of the most important questions a Christian can ask