The Debt of Being the Person Who Understands Everyone
People often come to you with their problems because you listen well. You know who is struggling at work, whose marriage is difficult, who is worried about a parent, and
Continue readingConsidering Worldviews
Someone recently left a comment on one of my articles explaining that there are two kinds of people in the world: thinkers and believers. You will be shocked to learn
Continue readingDNA and Believing In God
I’d like to think I’m a Christian because I’ve carefully examined the evidence. That I’ve weighed the arguments for and against. Read widely. Changed my mind when the facts demanded
Continue readingLearn How To Become A Genius
We have a strange relationship with the word “genius.” I’ve spent years studying the habits and behaviours of history’s greatest thinkers. One thing stood out. Genius is less like a
Continue readingHow to Save My Marriage: A Guide to Reconnection
How to Save My Marriage: A Guide to Reconnection Asking yourself, “How can I save my marriage?” is often the first brave step toward healing. If you are committed to
Continue readingKillings In The Bible: The Hand of God?
Exploring the Tension Between the Violent God of Some Biblical Texts and the Nonviolent Jesus Like it or not, there sure is a lot of killing in the Bible —
Continue readingIs God Agreeing With You?
“Excuse me, Sir,” Said one of the men. “I was wondering if you had found Jesus.” “I didn’t realize that Jesus was missing,” I said cheerfully — my go-to line
Continue readingThe Debt of Waiting for Your Feelings to Agree
You can know that a relationship needs to end, that a job isn’t right, or that a decision has to be made and still feel unable to act on what
Continue readingThe Debt of Making Meaning From Everything
We like to believe every painful experience contains a lesson. After something goes wrong, we often return to it looking for the explanation that will make the experience feel worthwhile.
Continue readingThe Debt of Leaving the Door Open
This is one of the hardest debts to recognise because it can look like hope. You leave room for the person who hurt you, keep thinking about the career you
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