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How To Identify An Emotionally Damaged Person
They don’t want love — only control What you’re feeling deep inside — it’s real. You just don’t know how to explain it yet. The relationship that once felt warm and exciting… now feels heavy. Like you’re slowly losing yourself, little by little, every single day. And if you’ve ever sat in front of
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Measuring The Viability Of A Relationship II
Sometimes You Have To Help Couples End A Bad Union About five years ago, I started doing something controversial: When I assess that a relationship is truly over, I shift from “saving the marriage” to “ending it as healthily as possible”. I don’t announce this. I don’t say “I think
June 9, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Measuring The Viability Of A Relationship
Within the first session or two, marriage counsellors make silent assessments about whether this relationship is viable. We look for criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling. Particularly contempt. Research shows that contempt is the single best predictor of divorce. When I see genuine contempt — not frustration or anger, but true
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Pulling Down Strongholds
I met this young man some years ago Handsome to look at, articulate, and very confident A Christian, a father of two children, and a husband He and his wife were attending a church somewhere in FESTAC The pastor controls their home; by that I mean, the pastor controls his
June 9, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo