Sometimes the right thing to do is walk away, please!

This brother is in London

The marriage is 18 years old

His wife has cheated so many times with different men since the very beginning

First, she claimed she cheated to make extra money for the family (this was immediately after they got to the UK from Nigeria)

When she got caught again, she said she cheated to raise some money for her tuition

Then she got caught again after she had graduated, and she said she cheated because she felt her husband would leave her, and she wanted to have someone else in her life to be there for her when her husband did this

Then she cheated with one of her colleagues because her husband got a job in another city and stayed away from home for three months

Five years ago, they got separated because of her unfaithfulness

The husband kept saying, “I am born again; I don’t want to have a broken home. I don’t want to ruin my testimony before God on the day of judgement”

Her family intervened, and they came back together

Since then, she has kept the other man she cheated with in her life.

She said he is there for her emotionally, and they are now just friends.

Husband caught them in a compromising position a month ago

The man was in their apartment while the husband was supposed to be away at work

Husband said he saw movement in the house and decided to peep through the window instead of going into the house

His wife and the man were kissing in the sitting room

He said his heart almost gave way when he saw them

They were about to move from kissing into the room when the wife noticed him at the window

The man hurriedly took his car keys and left

The wife later told him what he saw was the man consoling her because she got a query at work.

Since then, Mr Husband has told her to block the man on WhatsApp and not talk to the man again

She did this, but it was already prearranged with the man

She had gotten another phone with which he is communicating with the man

The husband knows this

Her annual leave started on Monday, but she didn’t tell her husband

She pretends daily that she is going to work, only to go to this other man’s house every day

Husband has recordings of the phone conversations she has been having with the man in their house because he planted a recording device at home

The man calls his wife “Smallie”

She calls the man “Pappy”

Wife is 43

Husband is 44

Man is 64

Husband has a record of her ordering through UBER eats from the address twice every day since Monday

Today, her husband tailed her to the address and now calls me to say that he wants to go to the man’s house to confront his wife.

“What if your heart gives way? Given that you have high blood pressure,” I asked

“What if the man hits you with something on the head, given that you followed your wife to his house?”

“What do you stand to gain by doing all this detective stuff?”

“What do you stand to gain in all these?”

Sir, I am a born again christian. I believe this is not ordinary. I want you to use the anointing to talk to my wife and break the “spiritual” link between her and this man.

If it is not this man, it will be another man.

Your wife is a cheat by nature, sir.

The pattern is clear for all to see.

You said you are fighting for the marriage for the sake of your two children.

You are very wrong sir

You are damaging the children

Your daughter has asked you several times if their mum has cast a spell on you because you saw all the things she was doing, and even exposing your children to, and you couldn’t take a strong stand

Your son has asked you why you wouldn’t get your own apartment and take them away from her

Your staying is not because you are born again, sir.

It is not love.

It is a weakness, and it is pathetic seeing you play the puppet in your wife’s and her lover’s reality

Your wife is not under a spell, sir.

She is doing exactly what she wants to do.

Please stop playing along.

Just walk away!

PS: Please drive away from the house of your wife’s lover before you do something foolish, sir.

Don’t confront them

Don’t gather more evidence, you have enough

Please go home, please.

Thank you

-GSW-