There is nothing wrong with a man having a preference for older women as long as the older women are not married women.

There is nothing that drags a man closer to an early grave like sleeping with a married woman. Even if her husband does not love her anymore, or if he is a polygamist or an absentee husband, it does not matter

As long as a man is responsible for her, sleeping with her makes you a thief, and the punishment for stealing another man’s farm produce could range from getting caught in a trap, to being fatally shot or wounded, or being cursed or afflicted

There was a Nigerian actor, a hunchback popularly called Jacob. He was very popular, and he acted with the likes of Papilolo and Aderupoko

I was six years old when he died.

He had eight wives at home, but he died of a sexual affliction while copulating with a married woman in his own house.

It was a lesson I learned early in life.

There is a very popular pastor in Nigeria whose wife started sleeping with the keyboardist in their church. It became a scandal. The woman claimed she had been sexually neglected by her husband and was just using the young man to meet a need.

Everybody prevailed on the pastor to forgive the woman.

The young man did not last a year

His death was not reported anywhere or seen as anything of consequence

Why would you destroy your destiny in the pursuit of a grave between a married woman’s thighs?

I love danger, I love a fast-paced life, I love adventure. Married women are calmer. Married women are more reasonable. Married women give me peace. Married women do not make demands of me like younger women do. Married women have their lives well put together. Married women are easy to relate to. Married women do not stress their lovers.

The reason for this is very easy.

Married women are stressing their husbands, being unreasonable with their husbands, troubling their husbands, making demands of their husbands, and they are not taking it easy with their husbands; they are giving their husbands a very difficult time

All the advantages you are claiming they give you are a result of the disadvantages they give their husbands at home. The husband is funding her lifestyle while you are milking his wife for free.

Another man grooms a woman, you like this finished product, and then start sleeping with her. You take out dividends from her without investing anything in her.

Then you sit down with your friends in a bar and talk about the benefits you are getting from this access to an early grave

A wise man will keep away from a married woman. He wouldn’t even consider the thought or any of her actions in a sexual manner.

A friend of mine got close to a married woman once. He had no intention of sleeping with her, but this married woman had every intention of sleeping with him.

She gave him the green light several times. She would talk to anybody with access to him about how she was the woman in his life. She patrolled his boundaries in order to keep other ladies away from him.

Eventually, she made her pitch to him boldly, and he turned her down.

Two days later, he got a call from her husband. As soon as he picked up the husband’s call, the man said, “Your mother must be a very prayerful woman. Be grateful to her.”

Personally, I see nothing of sexual or romantic value in a married woman. It is like embracing fire. It will end up hurting the one embracing it, no matter how warm and attractive it looked while burning by itself.

Some married women deliberately target some young and attractive men in gyms and other public places where they could exploit their sexuality in the name of doing something else, which would bring them plausible deniability when the deed is done.

“I didn’t know what came over me.”, “It is the devil.” he neglected me emotionally, he abandoned me emotionally, “The spark had died,”, “I am trying to get my groove back”, “I couldn’t resist him.”

In some cases, they pay the young man in order to encourage him to consider a repeat performance.

Death has never been as attractive and enticing as it is when offered by a woman who truly has no authority over herself.

There is no advantage apart from the sensual to sleeping with a married woman. No matter how hard you try to paint a picture of your experience while doing it, you cannot paint death in white and expect to sell it to the wise.

Keep away from married women.

-GSW-