Some people should be avoided like a plague if you intend to live a good, full, and meaningful life.
I am not saying they are not deserving of love and care, but I am saying they are not deserving of “Your OWN” love and care.

This set of people is known for their chaotic realities and a life prone to misfortune and calamities.

When you hear someone saying, “Am I the only person in this world? Why is evil always happening to me? Why am I always jumping from frying pan to fire? I cannot remember the last time something good happened to me, etc
Some of us have bleeding hearts, and we think we are changing the world by engaging in sympathy relationships or compassionate affairs.

Some of us have bleeding hearts, and we think we are changing the world by engaging in sympathy relationships or compassionate affairs. We then put our bodies and emotions on the line, thinking this is how true love works
You will be badly hurt, and that is a promise.

People prone to misfortune don’t need eros; they need filia and agape.
Offering them eros love would bring about expectations on your end that they do not have the capacity to meet.

When a boat is sinking, it does not need more passengers. It needs the passenger in it to survive
If you make your neck available for a drowning person, he or she would choke you to death.

I told a very beautiful lady recently, after she had told me all the troubles she was facing at the time, that she should not date anyone until she had found a solution to all her woes.

She was the first child, and she had a mother in the hospital who was suffering from a mental illness, a younger sister who was also suffering from mental illness, another sister who got pregnant out of wedlock, and the man refused to take responsibility for the pregnancy.

A father who has relocated to the village and depends on her for a monthly stipend. Another sister is in jail, and a close cousin who is a dependent on her but is a drug addict. The lady is 26 years old, and she had her own baggage too.

She wanted me to pray with her so she would get a husband, but I looked at all the issues she was in the middle of and had to tell her the truth. You are a liability at the moment, and any man who comes into your life will just be drained on every side.

You should not be dating someone you are only supposed to be kind to. Life is not black and white.

I know another lady whose boyfriend was framed for armed robbery.
They had been dating for two years, and he was from a very poor background. She came from money, and her family was against the union from day one.

She stood by him, got the best lawyers money could buy, and made sure he was well provided for while in jail. He spent one year and ten months behind bars, and she showed up every day for him throughout that duration.

Eventually, the main armed robber, who mentioned his name as part of his crew, confessed that he mentioned his name out of spite, and he was released. As soon as he got back to his parents’ house, the lady broke up with him.

You don’t want to be with a partner who is constantly in trouble or who comes from poverty and is not actively working his way out of it.

Some people have a lot of unfortunate episodes in their lives, and if you are in a relationship with them, their troubles will just drag your life in a strange direction

-GSW-