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DNA and Believing In God
I’d like to think I’m a Christian because I’ve carefully examined the evidence. That I’ve weighed the arguments for and against. Read widely. Changed my mind when the facts demanded
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Learn How To Become A Genius
We have a strange relationship with the word “genius.” I’ve spent years studying the habits and behaviours of history’s greatest thinkers. One thing stood out. Genius is less like a
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How to Save My Marriage: A Guide to Reconnection
How to Save My Marriage: A Guide to Reconnection Asking yourself, “How can I save my marriage?” is often the first brave step toward healing. If you are committed to
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Killings In The Bible: The Hand of God?
Exploring the Tension Between the Violent God of Some Biblical Texts and the Nonviolent Jesus Like it or not, there sure is a lot of killing in the Bible —
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Is God Agreeing With You?
“Excuse me, Sir,” Said one of the men. “I was wondering if you had found Jesus.” “I didn’t realize that Jesus was missing,” I said cheerfully — my go-to line
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The Debt of Waiting for Your Feelings to Agree
You can know that a relationship needs to end, that a job isn’t right, or that a decision has to be made and still feel unable to act on what
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The Debt of Making Meaning From Everything
We like to believe every painful experience contains a lesson. After something goes wrong, we often return to it looking for the explanation that will make the experience feel worthwhile.
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The Debt of Leaving the Door Open
This is one of the hardest debts to recognise because it can look like hope. You leave room for the person who hurt you, keep thinking about the career you
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Leadership is not dictatorship.
Ploughing yourself forward through everyone else without stopping to consider their opinions or feelings is not masculinity. It’s not leadership. It’s not “being a man.” It’s just being a socially
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Calling Jealousy “Motivation”
This one gets a much better publicist. Jealousy is ugly, while ambition is admirable, so we rename jealousy. You start getting invited to rooms you have been trying