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Are You With An Avoidant Partner?
An avoidant partner is someone whose attachment style pushes them to create distance when closeness starts to feel like pressure, not because they stopped caring, but because intimacy reads as
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The Person You Fell In Love with With Change
We usually fall in love with a snapshot. You meet someone and build a mental portrait of their best moments: the way they laugh at your jokes, the conviction with
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Are You With An Avoidant Partner?
An avoidant partner is someone whose attachment style pushes them to create distance when closeness starts to feel like pressure, not because they stopped caring, but because intimacy reads as
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Why Men Can’t Win Arguments
Why can’t a man win an argument with a woman he is in a relationship with? His woman’s boss will argue with her and win His woman’s father will argue
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Parallel Intimacy: A Cure For Loneliness in Long-Distance Relationships
How We Learned to Be Together While Being Alone? I experienced this when I dated a lady some years ago. We were both living in separate states, and work plus
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A Letter From Jos
Dear Brother Gbenga, There was a feeling I used to have when my husband was courting me. Anytime I knew I was going to meet him or that he would
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Buying Happiness
I had a sit-down with a lady. We spoke for a while. She said she told her boyfriend that she was travelling to Botswana for a two-week holiday. I asked
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The Paradox of Modern Dating
There is a strange paradox in modern dating: the men with the strongest principles often have the hardest time building a stable personal life. In theory, it should be the
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Conquering Bitterness
A few years ago, I asked my father how he was doing. He paused for a second. “Fine,” he said. Then he asked if I’d seen where he’d left his
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Managing Your Relationship
A modern man or woman will go to work on their worst day. Tired, hurt, angry, completely unmotivated — he or she still gets up, shows up, and does his