How To Identify An Emotionally Damaged Person
They don’t want love — only control What you’re feeling deep inside — it’s real. You just don’t know how to explain it yet. The relationship that once felt warm and exciting… now feels
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Sometimes You Have To Help Couples End A Bad Union About five years ago, I started doing something controversial: When I assess that a relationship is truly over, I shift
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Within the first session or two, marriage counsellors make silent assessments about whether this relationship is viable. We look for criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling. Particularly contempt. Research shows that
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I met this young man some years ago Handsome to look at, articulate, and very confident A Christian, a father of two children, and a husband He and his wife
Continue readingWhere Is The Wisdom In That?
You are not in an abusive marriage, but you are taking advice from someone who survived an abusive marriage. Where is the wisdom in that? Your husband has been
Continue readingProphecy: The Basics
Prophecy: its purpose, unfoldment, and fulfillment I want to probe a subject that’s very close to my heart and that’s central to a clear understanding of the plans of God.
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I was invited to preach in a foreign country. The protocol officers were supposed to take me straight to the hotel from the airport, but I wanted to see the
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