Judging Intentions In Relationships
I Spent Three Years Waiting for Him to Choose Me… Until I Realized I Had Never Chosen Myself “The hardest part wasn’t that he didn’t love me. The hardest part
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Today I’d like to answer this question: “Why does my ex talk bad about me when he was the one to end the relationship?”. When you’ve ended a relationship with
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The Dangerous Comfort of Yesterday’s Success: Why Growth Demands Reinvention Every Day Success has never been a public performance. It is a deeply personal journey. We live in a world
Continue readingObligations We See As Morality
Many responsibilities feel sacred simply because you’ve carried them for so long. Most people can tell you what they believe is right and wrong. Far fewer can tell you where
Continue readingI Chase Prospective Husbands Away
“I spent years wondering why emotionally unavailable men kept choosing me for short-term excitement while emotionally available men quietly disappeared. The answer wasn’t what I expected and I almost missed
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Your husband was pursuing a business with some oil and gas companies in Nigeria for eight years without making any headway. He is an engineer, and he had come up
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Three years ago, a young man called Z was invited by the pastor of a church in Abuja to come and talk to his church members about investment opportunities and
Continue readingLove is Mostly Not Enough
I used to think love was the final answer. Like, if you loved someone enough and if you understood them in all the soft and ugly corners of their mind,
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There was a man who travelled to the UK to study at the age of twenty-one. His uncle, who had lived in the UK for over thirty years, took over
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