The natural thing when a boy and a girl meet each other and fall in love is for them to begin to desire to become intimate. It is so natural that the body, by itself, begins to yearn for it as soon as it gets the signals that the heart has found love. For some, they jump on these instinctive feelings almost as soon as the feelings begin to stir and they become intimate Some others kickstart the feelings of love by becoming intimate. For most ladies, sexual satisfaction from her lover is the final test in her list of must-meet needs in order to convince herself the man is for keeps. Sometimes, she considers other advantages the man has to offer and use them to console herself if she notices that the sexual satisfaction aspect of the man’s offerings was not up to her taste or leaves her unsatisfied Depending on the level of misgiving or dissatisfaction, some ladies can quietly opt out of the relationship while others may stay in it while actively searching for a better deal with another man (popularly referred to as cheating) while others may just settle into what the man has to offer as what they will take in order to have a home.
Hence, the popular saying, a person cannot be good without a shortcoming. Other shortcomings may be in the guise of the man’s mannerism, ability to provide, the mindset, and whatever baggage he has, which she might have to cope with or run away from; his family and other issues may also play a significant role in her final decision-making as regards marriage. For the man, sexual satisfaction is defined differently; he wants a woman whose sexual appetite matches his own. A woman who wouldn’t make him feel like she is enduring what she should be eagerly enjoying when they are together. When men complain about women not being good in bed, they are essentially talking about her attitude, appetite, level of willingness and participation, desire to initiate sexual engagement without being asked, cajoled or begged, and willingness to take the bull by the horns and offer unique stimulating sights and innovative perspectives to the game.
When a man is satisfied he has found the right match, he also begins to think of marriage. There is a third class who prefer to leap in faith into the marriage process. They believe marriage should be between a chaste man and a chaste woman, and the bed should be undefiled. They believe this will preserve both parties from all the dangers of sexually transmitted diseases, heart aches, body count accumulation, lack of trust, and sexual dissatisfaction. If they both go into the union chaste and learn the art of mastering each other’s nakedness using their natural curiosity, openness with each other, sincerity, and communication skills as they should, the waters of their own wells should satisfy them all the days of their lives.
However, whatever category the tree falls into for either of the schools of thought, most couples expect to have children after getting married. Some choose not to have children while others may find themselves unable to have children for one reason or the other. For the majority, a marriage’s true testimonies are the children. Except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that build it: except the Lord keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain. It is vain for you to rise up early, to sit up late, to eat the bread of sorrows: for so he giveth his beloved sleep. Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb is his reward. As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth. Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them: they shall not be ashamed, but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate.- Psalm 127.
When they got married, she expected that she would become pregnant immediately. She was a young woman who had not misused her youth in any way, and he was a man of integrity in all his ways. She had seen people get pregnant all around her, some deliberately and others by mistake, but they all got pregnant the same way Boy meets girl, Girl likes boy, Boy brings his offerings, Girl accepts the offerings, Girl goes shopping for new undies to impress boy, Boy goes shopping for a ring to tell the girl what he wants, Boy brings a ring, girl bings a finger, Boy opens and inserts her finger and scream “Awwwwwn” Everybody claps. Later, when everybody is gone, Girl opens the real ring for the boy and he inserts himself. The music they make is for their ears only. The fountains they open satisfy the thirst of their bodies. He drops his seeds and she germinates them. The dance is done over and over until the seed becomes a child.
As it was in the beginning, So it is now And ever it shall be… This was not their story They danced and danced and danced, but the seeds remained ungerminated. They went to the hospital to find out what the issue was They dropped samples of everything necessary. The doctors and nurses did a lot of tests. All the results came out fine, and yet there was no pregnancy. Somebody suggested fertility-enhancing drugs, another person suggested IVF, another couple suggested prayers, someone sent them to a pastor, by the third year, their extended families were in full-blown panic mode. When the stress was getting too much, they had to call each other and say, “Let our love be enough for us through this season. We know God will do it, but we will not put ourselves under any pressure. Of course, it was easier said than done. As the monthly flow continued to come and the whispers began to turn into bold discussions and infringement into their spaces, it took a lot of grace and prayers to keep calm in the storm.
In the seventh year of their marriage, after having exhausted every option. A colleague was getting married, and they had to attend the event. When they got there, they met a familiar face. A contractor with the husband’s office who had also been invited . The contractor greeted them and asked them how their children were doing. It was an innocent question; and it was expected in the African setting where they all live the generic response would be “Thank God, the children are fine, or the family is fine.” However, the husband drew this contractor aside and said, “I thought you knew, we don’t have children yet, and this is our seventh year of marriage.” It was not his usual way of behaving, and they were in a crowded party setting. Normally, his wife would have been shocked by his lack of discretion, but his wife moved closer and nodded in agreement. The contractor held both their hands and said, “I decree in the name of Jesus, by this time next year, you will be having a set of triplets. Two girls and one boy.” They had been prayed for and prayed over before.
There was nothing new in what the contractor had said, but there was something different in the atmosphere as soon as the words were spoken. They had taken a break from medicine and spiritualists and whatever else and just determined to enjoy their lives as a couple. The contractor’s prayers were not solicited or even expected and yet, two weeks later, the wife discovered she started feeling ill When she went to the hospital, the doctor discovered she was carrying a set of twins Wow. She began antenatal and they began counting the days. When the pregnancy was seven months old, she went for another test and scan and the doctor gave her the wildest news “I am hearing a third fetal heart beat” Her husband protested, “Oh Lord, Twins are enough. In this economy, three at once. Baba God, noooooo” She was admitted to the hospital when her pregnancy clocked 8 months She delivered her babies by natural birth, three days later Her husband called the contractor “Ha. Everything you said came true. Your words became life in my wife’s womb. The babies are two girls and one boy. Wow. Jesus. Who are you? Which church do you attend? Are you a prophetess? She told him she ministers with GSWMI, she had graduated from PSSBC, and SoM She has been walking in the supernatural for three years with tangible results. On numerous occasions, she had turned the tides of situations and circumstances in the direction she desired in the place of prayer, Time and space always obeyed her.
She said as soon as she saw the two of them that day, the spirit of God told her to decree a set of triplets, and all she did was obey the heavenly voice. The husband invited her to the Christening ceremony of the children, and with joy shared the testimony to all who had an ear. He said he saw for the first time, the experienced the meaning of the Word became flesh. PS: Celebrate with me the arrival of babies Alexander Oche, Jason Emoche, and Jasmine Ochanya.
The fifteen set of supernatural triplets brought forth by the flaming coals of fire, the Lord is using all over the world to spread the fragrance of Christ. If you have not been joining our prophetic services or reading our testimonies, I think you’d better start. A generation has awakened to the fullness of God at work in them. Glory be to God