There are families associated with “evil” all over the world.
This categorization is not based on the testimony of one person or an aggrieved party.
It has been established for several generations, and members of the family also know this to be true.
Even though these families are made up of human beings who are lovable, friendly and law abiding citizens of the society, they are best observed from afar.
Those who are unfortunate to marry into such families end up as victims all the time because the families are predatory by nature.
The reason people don’t get married into them is because they use people, suck them dry and throw them out either through death or after stripping them of all their positive aura.
These families have very close ties, like wild dogs and lions.
They do no harm to each other, just the way most predatory animals are, but they unleash mayhem on anyone who comes across their path in the name of love or marriage or a relationship.
They are mostly made up of single parents, as their sons and daughters end up with children due to the fact that no spouse survives being with them.
In the records of those who got engaged in the family in 1979 were ten members of this family, five males and five females.
All the females ended up not getting married after getting pregnant for their intended.
One of them made it to engagement ceremony which held a day before the church marriage was supposed to hold.
At the engagement ceremony, the bride’s mother (single mother) and her father (not married to the mother) got into a fight that was so bloody, the family of the groom ran away from the event after two of them got seriously injured in the process of settling disputes.
The five men recorded only one marriage, the other four impregnated their intendeds and didn’t end up marrying them.
The one who got married had impregnated another lady while courting the one he got married to.
The lady gave birth to a girl, hoping to deliver her child before the first wife so as to claim seniority in the family. However, the wife at home gave birth to a boy on December 25, 1980, while the other lady gave birth to a girl on February 12, 1981.
The other marriage recorded was in 1984, the member of the family getting married was a male.
He impregnated a lady in Lagos but travelled to Italy to get married to another so as to get a stay abroad.
No other marriage was recorded in the family until 2010.
Two weddings were held on the same day.
Two females, both 28 years old, got married in the family. One married a Baker from Abeokuta, the other married a banker from Ibadan
The baker was shot to death one year after the wedding by unknown assailants.
The banker parted ways with his wife on the second wedding anniversary. The marriage produced a set of twin boys.
Investigations by the elders of the family into this “curse” led to many sacrifices and prayers being made on behalf of the family at churches and other “spiritual” places.
It was to no effect.
The family is a large and popular one with ties all over the world.
Their numbers kept increasing through children being brought in, but with no record of marriages either through traditional means or any religious means.
The family is not unique in its identity, there are several others like it all over Nigeria.
This is why it is important for folks to investigate families properly before marrying into them.
Many members of such families join churches, start speaking in tongues, and then claim to have become born-again Christians and therefore no longer share the destiny of the larger family.
They believe this, but this is not true
They became sincerely born again, but their attitude and conduct remained the same.
A member of the family, who had seen the trend and was determined to break it did not get married until two years ago at the age of forty-three
He was a pastor of a Pentecostal church, and many believe that if anyone can break the curse, he surely must be the one
His marriage did not last nine months before his wife ran away with pregnancy based on the incessant attacks (physical) of the man’s mother and sisters towards the wife.
She was a banker when they met, he was the one that told her to resign from her job because of the stress and the fact that he was looking at starting a family immediately after they got married.
After the marriage, she took in. His mother and sister moved into their house “to help care for her,” and they began to taunt her
They call her “TV wife” because she does not work, and “Mother Korea” because she likes Korean TV shows.
The wife stopped watching TV, they called her a snub
She began looking for a job, they called her an embarrassment to their family
Every time she reports to her husband and he tries to intervene, they ramp up the pressure.
The husband eventually told them to leave
A few days after they left, the wife discovered a cobra slithering into her bed in the middle of the night.
She left the marriage the next day.
This pastor took time to review the family tree from the 1800s and discovered something was seriously wrong with the members of that family right from its inception.
He reached out to the oldest elder in the family to find out if they were aware of these developments and what they had done to address them.
The elder of the family told him they are a unique blood and shouldn’t mix with others through marriage because marriages cause families to fragment and splinter.
“Our strength lies in our blood being uncorrupted and our ears being single to the leadership of the family. Spouses from other families tend to take away our sons and daughters, we didn’t want that. It is best to increase biologically than increase maritally.
Marital increase weakens the family’s spine, while biological increase strengthens the family’s spine.
We don’t marry, we father and mother children.”
The number of children per generation increased steadily every generation, but the number of marriages almost seems nonexistent.
When you are dating anyone and you look at the family album, but cannot find happily married couples who are older brothers, sisters, uncles, aunts, grandparents, cousins, and so on of the person
When this person tells you he or she is a jinx breaker in the family because there were no marriages, or the marriages never last
The individual you want to get married to may come from a broken home, which is not a crime, but if the broken home thing is a predominant pattern throughout the person’s family
The proper orientation and training required for the individual to have a happy marriage is not available, it is very likely that the person is not suitable for marriage or to be married to.
Don’t fly blind into marriage
Don’t say “I have prayed and gotten a spiritual go-ahead”
A lot of us claim God spoke to us only once in our lifetime, when it is time to choose a spouse.
Every other decision we take by ourselves but because of the pressure from religious leaders, we end up lying that God spoke when only our desires have spoken.
Sentiment might get you a wedding but , it will not get you a good marriage
Be kind to yourself, consider your future, and remember that marriage requires both a structure and a mindset.
Some only wish to be married but do not know how, and do not have the proper orientation.
Don’t fall prey to such folks out of sentiment
Marriage is not for everyone
In this life, some have to be baby daddies and baby mamas
Some can only thrive as single parents
Some marriages can only thrive if the couple move very far away from their extended families
Some marriages can only thrive if the couple is close to their extended families
No two marriages are the same
If you really desire to marry and experience bliss in marriage, don’t leap into it with blind faith.
A knowledge of the terrain you are getting married into can be a lifesaver like no other.
PS: I will be addressing and resolving serious foundational issues relating to marriage during the Flight on Saturday. The Lord has asked me to pray towards this and rewrite the foundational realities of many. I am inviting you to the event if you would like to partake in this ministration.
Remember what Prophet Elisha did to the source of the river at Jericho?
The Lord said He will do the same for those with faulty foundations.
I will be there on time and we will all receive of the Lord as one.
-GSW-