GSW: This is a feminine way of solving problem and it is not practicable. If the lady does not have the asset the man saw in the other lady, should she go and borrow assets to satisfy a man’s roving eyes? Every woman assumes she has the same thing other women has. That assumption always sounds funny to me. This is not exactly true. And that your husband or partner looked at another woman does not mean he wants to be with her. It means his eyes can see and the brain can interpret what he sees. That is not a crime.

The crime is if he follows up what he sees with any form of action that dishonours him or brings shame to you. If he says to you “The lady is shameless, see what she is wearing” Reply him by saying “Do not dignify shame by talking about it”. Nobody wants to associate with shame. Just look away. And if he says “That lady is beautiful”. It has nothing to do with you. It is most likely just a statement of fact. Reply
by saying “Yeah, she is” End of story. Don’t turn it to “What does she have that I don’t have”. It is not a competition, and yes she may have what you don’t have. Why find out? Just learn to allow your partner be free to have conversations with you instead of coding words because he is afraid you will take everything personal. That he didn’t say it does not mean he is not thinking it though. Be fun to be with and allow your man breathe. laugh over things and be a friend.

I have never seen a man who is threatened when his wife says “That guy is fine” Or that guy is rich. Guys don’t care about that. He is probably thinking “Yeah but he can’t make you scream or cream like I do” That’s a typical guy’s mindset. He doesn’t consider other guys a threat unless he sees the guy is making a move for you or you are making a move for the guy. It is always the ladies that are threatened by their guy looking at another person. Eyes are meant to see I beg.