GSW: If a guy or lady loves you, it is demonstrated by the action of the person. Then the guy comes with a proposal. Proposal is actually intention to love and stay true to that which has been found. But his true evidence of love is marriage. In the Christian context, if he found you worthy of marrying you, it means he loves you truly. Then your response to him is submission. Because you have agreed to go with him into the future and make his people your people and His God your God.

So while you are still in the talking stage know that if he says I love you, he really doesn’t mean it that way. He meant I am fond of you. Or you are my favorite person or you are BAE. He simply can’t love because the grace to love in a Christian sense comes only after the marriage. Not before. All those “Show me your love”, “Prove your love” na scam.