GSW: Men are scarce Pastor sir. Endangered Specie. If you catch one. Anyone. Just be managing it.

Always the smarter ones! They are smart until they fall in love with one mumu who will be collecting their hard earned money to gamble and then beg them to take him back because instead of wife, they have evolved into his mother. Smart to know losing weight will save their lives but praying for a miracle to keep the weight while healing the heart at the same time. Smart to know checking his phone is a bad idea and still checking it all the same so that they can make their heart beat fast and cry blood. Smart enough to know they jam talk but they still jam talk all the same because they have mouth. I had a case that made me cry on Saturday. Husband is impotent. He told wife. Wife accepted to stay with him. Then he comes out ten years later to tell wife that he had a child outside of wedlock. Gaslighting the wife now that she is the barren one.

Despite tons of medical reports proving she is fine and he has zero sperm. And wife believed him. Imagine that. This smart, educated, well raised mature woman was weeping and asking me for a miracle and I was like, You don’t need a miracle. You are dumb. As in if you see a miracle you won’t recognize it. You can’t think. I have been teaching critical thinking for this reason in the last few weeks. Seems decision making is an issue. I understand the men, when they stay in a bad relationship. I don’t understand the women especially when the women are the victims. For the men, they didn’t take home training complete and it is not an elective course so if you don’t allow your mummy to train you, another girl from Sango Ota will do it on her behalf so I get that. For the ladies however, men are not in charge of home training so you are just suffering for nothing. That one said she feels she will offend God if she does not give
her money to Mr. Appiah. Imagine that! I felt like just hanging my boot when I heard that. In what planet does that argument make sense? You are the one working, feeding the children, paying bills and you are sending money to a man who will use it to gamble steadily. That mumu button is red in colour. Bright red.