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If she didn’t raise that money…. The man or his wife or family…they would raised that money …I know of a similar case la ….in this case it was a neighbor’s daughter….all the the man’s children (all 5 of them) washed their hands off the case and threatened their mother too. But she stood by him….raised money for bail plus lawyer’s fee.
GSW: It won’t be my money. That is the point. I may have 1zillion dollars but I won’t payfor something I disagree with in principle. I think someone should be
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You can’t say o, someone fought my niece in our estate that her joggers are distracting her husband. I asked her if she should be jogging wearing babariga ni 🤣Seriously though , if you see a woman/lady dress like a baddie and it caught your husband attention somehow , no need to make issue out of it. Enter market , buy the baddest baddie and use his ATM card or your money to buy it and wear it. Simple !Only insecure and small minded women will go to that length to fight another babe for distractions. She doesn’t have the right to.
GSW: This is a feminine way of solving problem and it is not practicable. If the lady does not have the asset the man saw in the other lady, should
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My own problem is that I’m usually the first to look and scream sha. Because I toocan see good things, that babe set be say she set and we’re supposed to appreciateGod’s handiwork 😩😩 So I don’t know why anyone should be saying someone elseshould become blind o. Hian. Allow men’s eyes to breeet. But I should probably drawthe line at turning to keep looking. Don’t make it too obvious
🫣 GSW: See I was in a marriage where I had to code and think very well before speaking lest a good morning become an evil day. One day, I
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My husband will take his wife to a restaurant and will tell a beautiful lady that her hair is nice, or her dress is nice. Me, the wife…toh! The girl is fine , plus I get to hear this every blessed day(when i look good sha. After smiling, she will give us all the discounts the house has to offer, and it ends there. He loves to compliment people a lot. I do not how tell a man that he is fine, but I will tell my husband that a guy looks good. I don’t think it should be that hard sha. Someone married to my kind of guy will have the highest BP on top matter the guy doesn’t take too deeply.
GSW: God bless you sis. I especially appreciate your husband. one day I was talking tohim and he said “I know you bought a new car, why are you not
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I think some women respect their man enough not to say such sha (I know i do). Men would just open mouth wide and say what they saw that amazed them 😒😒
GSW: It is not respecting him that didn’t let you say it sis. It is because you think he willtake offence and he will not. That he said it to
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How do you manage a partner that has self esteem issue?
GSW: Please sir, therapy is a requirement. You cannot manage it from outside. She or he must build that self esteem from within. You can support or help the person
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I have a position and would like to seek other’s perspective on it as I don’t agree with the “universal position” on it. Communication: I completely disagree with the notion and perception that Women are better communicators and Men are poor communicators. The idea that a particular gender is poor/better at something is absurd to me because billions of people cannot just be “poor” at an essential element of life. The first question would be “better/poor in comparison to whom?” Why is one gender the basis or reference point. Is it by the volume of words used or the ability to read emotional cues? Why should female communication be the reference point especially when more words and gestures are required? The second question is why then do men understand men perfectly if we are poor in communication? Why is it that we don’t miscommunicate at workplace, only in relationships and other informal setting requiring male/female interactions. The last question would be at what point does this inadequacy set in? Is it at puberty or from birth? This question is important because men were raised by both men and women so why was this not trained into boys from toddlers. If it is more of nature than nurture, why then should it be seen as a male problem? Do we see the same trend in our ministry/work/families? i.e. Men not communicating clearly.
GSW: Let me say first that the Logic of this discussion and the emotion of this discussion are two separate things. The first we can all write about. The second
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I think this is because women are more expressive than men. Even if men do the talking, it will probably be one or two sentences. But women will start from when they were hustling, when they bought land and blah blah blah
GSW: You get it. That is not an academic or research truth. That is a life truth. Marriage is not for everybody. I have said this over and over again.
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How do they deal with the loneliness? No matter what, every human needs companionship. It is how God designed us. They need to be a way to heal them.
GSW: Marriage does not cure loneliness sir. For chaotic folks, they feel alive when theydo things spontaneously and without any form of order. Wake up in a room, spend theday
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If they are believers, what should we do for them? They cant continue to live that way…
GSW: The Word of God changes us. There is nothing that reprograms us like the Scriptures. To be candid, and I mean brutally candid. There is more in every marriage,