My friend’s marriage in the UK scattered cos she asked the husband, a Prince from Edo, to take dustbin out in the presence of his Nigerian visiting mother. The guy had already spoken to her about this before the mother came. Let him act like a prince in his mother’s presence, when she leaves, they can go back to status quo. This girl foolishly started querying his actions. We warned her but her feminist ideas won’t let her listen. The guy was summoned to Oba’s Palace in Benin and mandated to marry an Edo wife. My friend is still frustrated till today asking everyone what she did wrong. She was foolish. This is a life experience I witnessed. In her quiet time, I can bet she wishes so, but outside, she is championing young girls leaving their marriages for issues they can sort out…. a very sad feminist as at the last time I encountered her.

GSW: They all end up here. Wearing bad character like a medal and going about writing stuff on social media. Becoming a life coach helping ladies in bad marriages to

May 13, 2025 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo

Reminds me of my aunty and her husband. He loves cooking and would send us (his wife and her cousins) all to watch movies while he cooks, he won’t even allow us to participate in anyway. He would finish and tell us to go serve ourselves. One day he was in the kitchen as usual while we lounged in the living room waiting for Oga (the boss) to finish cooking for us to eat, and his mother came in without unexpectedly. She put her hands on her head and began crying. Moreso, all of us were not related to him and they are not the same tribe. Mama said they have turned her son to houseboy. It wasn’t funny at all.

GSW: She should have run into the kitchen immediately and chased him out. As soon as she saw that his mother had arrived. You run into the kitchen and lock

May 13, 2025 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo

Which is why we shouldn’t tie respecting a husband because he is the provider. Because what if he isn’t providing. Respect the husband because it is the rule of the game.

GSW: It should not be respect based on performance. It should be a natural respect

May 13, 2025 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo

When I was getting married my mom shared the two instances she learned the hard way. First, when they newly married, before she wakes up every weekend, dad would go to the market and buy things for stew, one day he overslept and she began to quarrel. He never said anything but that was the last time he ever did market runs for her till date. Second time, he bought a fabric someone was selling in his office for her, she said she told him it was cheap curtain fabric and he never bought anything for her again till about 10 years later. She said by then she had learned her lesson, so she kept wearing it everyday for three days (even though she didn’t like it) till he asked her to go and wear another cloth, she told him it was because she liked it too much 😁 That stories still rings in my head till date

GSW: Your mummy is very wise. Awww. My heart is warming up in the right places.

May 13, 2025 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo

What is the spiritual implication of LGBTQ+

GSW: We should learn to see beyond the surface. The devil is creating a religion in order to find the seed of the son of man. Jesus was the seed

May 13, 2025 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo

Rabbi, and I am asking sincerely, do we really have the power to slow things down. Especially prophecies that are set in stone? Since the day of John the beloved many Antichrist have come.

GSW: Some believers who came ahead of us delayed the prophecy till now because they know that the true knowledge of the gospel has not spread all over the world.

May 13, 2025 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo

Dear Bro Gbenga. We learnt about curses in our classes, and we know that no one can curse the Holy Spirit. How will the curse of that father or mother work in this case? This man clearly put everyone in trouble. Just thinking wildly in the light of our knowledge on curses

GSW: It will not be a curse on the Holy Spirit sir. It will be a self inflicted problem that has to do with not knowing your place like a

May 12, 2025 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo

Thank you sir. Very enlightening teaching! I’m just thinking; is it all pastors that can be told this kind of thing? What if the pastor is a judgmental pastor? Would you still advise her to tell the pastor?

GSW: No please. The pastor should be very judgmental and wicked. He should tongue lash the man and flog him if possible. He is pastor for that reason. His children

May 12, 2025 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo

Sir what if she quietly reports to the police…will that still be dishonour. Because I’m thinking in light of the weight of the crime…what if it was murder? Shouldn’t she still report…I’m also thinking in light of the location of the problem…somewhere in the UK where child safeguarding is taken seriously….it will be in the daughter’s best interest to report him

GSW: It will be in the daughter’s best interest to report to someone who can report him. You don’t want to have that kind of knowledge. I reported my father

May 12, 2025 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo

Sir, I need to ask her this question in her quest for them to go their separate ways so they don’t kill each other, what formed that opinion? What did she notice that might led to them not bn able to live together and killing each other. The mother has endured all the father’s abuses and even aided him in concealing his crimes, so why would she no longer be safe with him? (Sir, elder pastor right. Not a young pastor I presume.)

GSW: She was just jam talking. First she said her mother covered her father, showing her mother was complicit or aiding and abetting. The next she said they can kill

May 12, 2025 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo