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As a teenager I once had a colleague in the church choir then who faked her kidnap and went to her boyfriends house. The whole church was soo worried, everyone was praying for her release not knowing she was enjoying where she was. She was a minister daughter. The mum was too strict with her, the church wasn’t really helping, she wanted freedom.
GSW: When I was in the uni. A lady who does not tolerate unholiness left home to go and see her boyfriend. Because she didn’t want to lie, she switched
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Gbenga Samuel-wemimo, thank you so much for killing the mighty sacred cow of sex. The effect is still shaking things. The legs of the tables will never take root again. I have been meditating on it and just getting some mind blower feelers. Sex is not only just unspiritual, it seems to be the lest unspiritual things. Words are far more Spiritual than sex. The first man Adam came to be by words. When he fell, the fallen man after him came to be by sex. The Second man Jesus Christ came to be by words (And the word was made flesh). The recreated man after Christ came to be by words. The fallen man has placed a lot of focus on the very source of it’s existence. And they have so reinvented it, lived by it and destroyed by it. Each time we focus or hype it, we become more drawn to our human nature and it’s limitation. Sex is not just only unspiritual, it is anti Spiritual. For the New man, words and the sound code of the Spirit( Praying in tongues), draws us more into the Spiritual life that we have received. But you, beloved, building yourselves up on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Spirit, Jude 1:20I still sincerely don’t know the origin of SEX IS SIN came from even in the Bible. We were sold a very big lie.
GSW: This is so true sir. There is no basis for it in the Bible. No scriptural reference. But since everyone of us want to prevent others from having it,
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Sex was called MORTAL SIN. Straight ticket to hell. Denies you communion, and blessings. Only remedied by Confession and heavy Penance. But it couldn’t stop anything. Those that could not stop it saw themselves as reprobate. Those that did without it were fearful and most times sanctimonious.
People forgive themselves of gossip. Forgive themselves of lying. Forgive themselves of abortion. But they won’t forgive themselves if they had “sex” outside of wedlock. Especially if they didn’t keep
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My husband does this all the time. When we are alone he does everything by himself, but his hands break immediately we have guests, especially his friends. I do mtcheww inside o, but I will get him whatever he asks for 🙄
GSW: He is a good man. All he is asking for is respect me in front of my friends. I won’t disturb you when we are alone. It is important
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But please… what is with this whole respect business? Life is simple, we love, appreciate, and have regard for each other. We don’t need all the peacock show-off. I am jus thinking loud, I know this matter of respect is as old as..
GSW: That question was what Vashti was asking while they were throwing her load out of the palace.
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Yes, that is what I’m saying…. why does it have to be tested just to be put on display?
GSW: A wise wife will not allow it to be tested. Once a wise husband realizes he is struggling to be respected in his own marriage, the marriage is over.
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I understand all of this… what I don’t get is why some men (not kings) feel the need to make a point of displaying the fact that their wives obey/respect them? Okay, let me ask this… would you have your wife do something just because you want to display/prove this point to your friends? We’re all different, and I appreciate that.
GSW: That was not the context though. We must imagine things in their natural courses. Not like a stage play. Husband and wife wakes up daily, husband makes breakfast while
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Ahhhhh… so are you saying that in real live, men don’t like displaying the fact; the respect their wives have for them.
GSW: Depends on the woman. Some women or wives do not seem to understand that their strength is not for public display. It is subtle and under the sheet or
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I’m not talking of respect now. You know the way it’s normal team work to get the home going… it can’t be seen in some quarters.
GSW: Now this might need a bit of subtle adjustment from the man. Not forced.
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My friend’s marriage in the UK scattered cos she asked the husband, a Prince from Edo, to take dustbin out in the presence of his Nigerian visiting mother. The guy had already spoken to her about this before the mother came. Let him act like a prince in his mother’s presence, when she leaves, they can go back to status quo. This girl foolishly started querying his actions. We warned her but her feminist ideas won’t let her listen. The guy was summoned to Oba’s Palace in Benin and mandated to marry an Edo wife. My friend is still frustrated till today asking everyone what she did wrong. She was foolish. This is a life experience I witnessed. In her quiet time, I can bet she wishes so, but outside, she is championing young girls leaving their marriages for issues they can sort out…. a very sad feminist as at the last time I encountered her.
GSW: They all end up here. Wearing bad character like a medal and going about writing stuff on social media. Becoming a life coach helping ladies in bad marriages to