GSW: This applies to only poor men though. The way God instituted marriage, need goes in only one direction. Not both. It is in this modern times that we have juggled things up and made a mess of it. She is the that will desire and live for his love. Not the other way round. I laugh so much when I read some things, and this is why we have Freezone. Socio-cultural differences and environmental differences are real and therefore our understanding of reality is never going to be lineal.