GSW: It is how they see it. What I hear them say.

I am being drawn into issues that demand so much from me emotionally. They now make me the bad person for telling them the truth. One wrote to me and said “You are the one that said salvation is eternal, now my husband is cheating freely saying he will not go to hell” I said Yeh! What has one got to do with the other? Is it hell that will keep your husband from cheating? Husband that was already with another woman before I met you people. It is now my fault. That myth that men don’t have sense is not right. Men want to have sex. Women want to marry. So you see the issue? Ladies want the guys to want marriage. So if he does not want marriage to them he does not have sex.

The problem is another lady is selling the market for cheaper somewhere. Selling sex on black market. Men will now go and buy black market. Women will now say they don’t have sense. If you see dollar cheap, you no go buy? Women forget timing is critical to their decision making. You can reverse many things by the Spirit but you cannot reverse the same for others. So you can command yourself to keep looking younger than your age and even do plastic surgery.

A 40 year old dating a 20 year old knows she is deceiving herself. If the boy is compliant, his family, friends and society will not be compliant. When ladies ask me why they can’t marry younger men, I tell them they can. But it depends on what you want out of the union. You are sleeping with someone 5 years younger than you but you don’t want his friends to be disrespecting you and calling you by name because you are older than them. A man has the authority to correct his wife’s age mates who are unruly and they will comply. A woman cannot do the same. His friends will have to be your friends for you to
have a good relationship with him otherwise you isolate him from his social circle and find yourself befriending a bitter person. We all won’t marry at the same time or have children at the same time. Comparing yourself with others will seriously hurt you. Understanding the time and taking advantage of it to fulfil your vision in life is also very key.