I understand that marriage is just an earthly thing I also support they should share common beliefs and all. However, as regards choosing, is there a formula to it. I’ve heard and seen people who got revelations on who to Marry. I’ve seen people who chose by discernment. Others by a few criteria they set e.g. Marrying your friend and all (that lasted too). Some cases there was revelation the intended couple are not good for each other which is legit. How do you figure it out what works when you are choosing? E.g., from experience I notice once feelings is involved which if I’m been honest, I don’t see anything when asking for direction and I would pray about other things and get clarity but once feelings is involved and It’s obvious I like the person I no Dey see road. Is there a way to know it is the right decision by the spirit.

    gswmi.com > FAQs > Marriage: before and after > I understand that marriage is just an earthly thing I also support they should share common beliefs and all. However, as regards choosing, is there a formula to it. I’ve heard and seen people who got revelations on who to Marry. I’ve seen people who chose by discernment. Others by a few criteria they set e.g. Marrying your friend and all (that lasted too). Some cases there was revelation the intended couple are not good for each other which is legit. How do you figure it out what works when you are choosing? E.g., from experience I notice once feelings is involved which if I’m been honest, I don’t see anything when asking for direction and I would pray about other things and get clarity but once feelings is involved and It’s obvious I like the person I no Dey see road. Is there a way to know it is the right decision by the spirit.

I understand that marriage is just an earthly thing I also support they should share common beliefs and all. However, as regards choosing, is there a formula to it. I’ve heard and seen people who got revelations on who to Marry. I’ve seen people who chose by discernment. Others by a few criteria they set e.g. Marrying your friend and all (that lasted too). Some cases there was revelation the intended couple are not good for each other which is legit. How do you figure it out what works when you are choosing? E.g., from experience I notice once feelings is involved which if I’m been honest, I don’t see anything when asking for direction and I would pray about other things and get clarity but once feelings is involved and It’s obvious I like the person I no Dey see road. Is there a way to know it is the right decision by the spirit.

May 24, 2025 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo
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I understand that marriage is just an earthly thing I also support they should share common beliefs and all. However, as regards choosing, is there a formula to it. I’ve heard and seen people who got revelations on who to Marry. I’ve seen people who chose by discernment. Others by a few criteria they set e.g. Marrying your friend and all (that lasted too). Some cases there was revelation the intended couple are not good for each other which is legit. How do you figure it out what works when you are choosing? E.g., from experience I notice once feelings is involved which if I’m been honest, I don’t see anything when asking for direction and I would pray about other things and get clarity but once feelings is involved and It’s obvious I like the person I no Dey see road. Is there a way to know it is the right decision by the spirit.

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He who finds a wife! That is what the Bible says. Many of us do not understand that the total make up and lifestyle of a believer cannot be separated. You are not living according to heavenly culture but you want heavenly wife or husband. E no go work. I have seen marriages brought together by prophecy that failed spectacularly. If God gives you a partner, God won’t keep the partner for you. And God is not involved in imperfect schemes. So God does not give anybody a wife. That is the truth. God didn’t
give Abraham Sarah. He didn’t give Rebeccah to Isaac. He did’nt give Rachel or Leah to
Jacob. He didn’t give Mary to Joseph. He won’t give you a wife sir.

Find a wife, and love your wife. Don’t find a girlfriend o and love a girlfriend. Find a wife, it is the one you marry that you love. All those telling their boyfriends I love you are just joking. Love is the exclusive preserve of the married. For it has been sealed with a vow of intentionality.

The singles in a relationship have no love to give or offer. Love only comes after marriage. All those infatuation feelings and legs shaking feeling are just hormones and whatever. You can like someone o. But you cannot love anyone before marrying them. Husband, love your wife!!! That is scripture. That is why we have many exes and we even forget why we dated them in the first place. We should stick with the values and principles of the kingdom.

Some of us are fond of asking a guy if he loves us. He too will say he does. Then he will dump you tomorrow. How can he give you something that he does not have? The grace to love only comes upon a man after he has gotten married to his wife. And the grace to “submit” only comes upon the wife after marriage.

Have you seen a submissive girlfriend before? She looks pathetic and pitiable. Submitting to a man you are not married to makes you look weak and helpless. I remember a brother I know, he was dating a lady. He calls her “Iya yi” and she calls him Oba. They both act like they were married. She cooks and scrubs. He provides. One day she went to the market and met another guy. He asked her out. Bought her a phone
instantly. Gave her tons of money. Instead of returning within the hour. She was out for hours. She became afraid her boyfriend will ask her questions she can’t answer when she gets home. The new guy took her to his house. And the relationship was over. Her submission to him is not protected by love that comes with marriage. After marriage, she bears his name and takes on his culture and lifestyle. She submits not only to him but to his lifestyle and way of doing stuff. Learn this. Before marriage, she can never submit in truth. Before marriage he can never love in truth. Hope this is clear

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