GSW: This is so true sir. There is no basis for it in the Bible. No scriptural reference. But since everyone of us want to prevent others from having it, we all decided to shroud it in one giant mystery like a scare crow in a maize farm. So that we can go there and pluck some but only others who have our knowledge can do the same. Then we scare others with boogeyman or ojuju vibes instead of teaching them the consequences and benefits of sex. The sex is spiritual mindset ended up putting many believers in bondage. When they have sex (outside of marriage) they lose their peace, their fellowship, their
walk with the Holy Spirit, their ability to hear from God! The devil capitalizes on this to make their lives miserable for months or years. I know a woman who was out of fellowship for 13 years for just one night spent with a would be “sugar daddy”

The Sugar daddy became a believer and moved on, the sister who was a believer now was out of fellowship for that long. No relationship, no friendship, living alone, serving a penance for failing God. While God was never angry with her. What she did was done against her own body and she has the right to forgive herself and move on but she chose to be wicked to herself thinking this is what would please God. She could have obtained grace and mercy but she chose pain and agony Which are not virtues that exist in heaven. The same way some catholic priests and members would punish themselves with scourges and pains and nail in their shoe for sinning. Claiming they are putting their bodies under. This does not please God at all. God is pleased when we do his will and fulfil his purpose in Christ. Whatever Jesus didn’t do, We should not do. If some of us got angry and beat people out of the temple, we will feel so terrible and say we have disappointed God. Jesus didn’t feel terrible for what he did that day in the
temple. That mindset is what we all must have. Without it we cannot rule and reign.