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GSW: See I was in a marriage where I had to code and think very well before speaking lest a good morning become an evil day. One day, I was driving and there was this lady taking pictures with her phone in front of a studio, she is beautiful, so I looked at her and my ex-wife started crying “Nothing a woman can do can satisfy you men, why are you looking at that girl” Me that I saw the girl but was not really looking at her like that, I was looking but not seeing, because my mind had gone to the thought “Why can’t someone take the picture for her, she is taking it all alone and it won’t be that fine etc” you see where my mind went but to her my mind went to wanting to be with the lady. It is not that hard. I have had months to think of those days again and how constraining that relationship was.

Walking on eggshells all the time because someone had low self esteem is not healthy for a man. It slants how you see and act. You start pretending and deluding yourself. It is not a healthy place to be. Allow your guys rest please. Let your husband and boyfriends enjoy being with you. Don’t turn everything into an emotional cesspool, please.