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Marriage: before and after

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  • I have been struggling with this issue for a while now. I have been married for about 22 years and have four children. I lost my first son to suicide last year, 2021; he was in his final year at university and died at home. I am now left with three children. My first daughter recently graduated with a first-class degree and got married last month in Port Harcourt to an Anglican minister. My husband is a venerated member of the Anglican Church. I won’t say I’m happily married—no, I haven’t been. I have battled depression for years. I had planned to leave the marriage, but the Lord wouldn’t allow it because of my husband’s ministry. Unfortunately, I am married to someone who has never loved me and still doesn’t. I have tried a lot over the years, but God has been my help. His main complaint about me is that I am not working or contributing to the home—that I’m not adding any value to his life just because I’m not employed. Despite this, I pray for him and always stand in the gap for him. This long-standing issue has persisted for years, and I am tired. He had his prostate removed almost ten years ago without telling me, and now he can no longer perform and says he’s not interested. This is seriously affecting our relationship. I have stopped sleeping in the same room with him and have decided to gradually withdraw from him. He is not bothered and doesn’t want to discuss anything with me. I just turned 50 in October. I have also decided to shut him out of my life. I can’t sin against God because of our relationship and my love for Him, but I desperately need a release from this hellish marriage. My soul and spirit are weary. There is no love left between us. I am writing this in tears, asking for God’s intervention.

    We haven’t addressed the most important part of this story—the suicide of her son. When a mother feels unloved by her husband and powerless, she often confides in her child

    May 24, 2025 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo
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  • As a child growing up in that kind of family, how do you set healthy boundaries without completely shutting down emotionally?How do you protect yourself—and especially your younger siblings—from the same recurring patterns, especially when you can already see those patterns beginning to repeat in them?And what about the parent? How do you help a parent who may never change—because that’s the only way they know how to parent? Also, how can the broken relationship between parent and child be mended or restored?Losing a child is painful—but what happens when the child doesn’t die physically, yet becomes distant in every other way?

    GSW:The woman will need to change—not by force, but patiently, through building up her children and husband with her words and attitude. She must let go of all hurt and

    May 24, 2025 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo
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  • What can we say about kissing in our relationship

    I Came to the beach once with a very beautiful girl. We were not friends like that. We met in church on a Sunday and she said she will be

    May 24, 2025 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo
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  • I stopped testing kiss when I got a good kisser that was not good for me in all aspects of life and destiny🌚

    GSW: Ha! That one, you know he is not the one but that kiss has a life of its own. I drove this car before. Na accident las las

    May 24, 2025 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo
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  • I got discouraged when I viewed stuffs under the microscope and did biology in the university

    GSW: GSW: Kiss has nothing to do with microorganisms abeg. Under your nails alone you get them. Live your life. Germs koh, tongues ni. A good kisser can wipe your

    May 24, 2025 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo
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  • Is there any message in kissing?

    GSW: We all don’t kiss the same. Once we get a rhythm we like we settle. But if we kiss someone else the rhythm changes. You wonder where she learnt

    May 24, 2025 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo
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  • How do you deal with people with mouth odor while kissing ?

    GSW: You guys and extremes. The percentage of people with mouth odor is not that high. If the mouth is smelling tell him or her politely and kindly. A good

    May 24, 2025 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo
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  • Are there particular kind of girls that love to be kissed on the forehead?

    GSW: Yes please. Some are not touched by it while it melts some others.

    May 24, 2025 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo
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  • What does this kiss on the forehead do or mean? It doesn’t do anything for me, maybe I should be more amenable to such show of love.

    GSW: It does not work for everybody ma. For some, it affirms their maternal role. There is a need to be educated. Ignorance is not bliss when it comes to

    May 24, 2025 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo
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  • So you can be married in a family and then if a spouse die essentially you are still part of the linage and can redeemed by another family member. I’m trying to see the similarities with Mary and Joseph’s case. Can what they have been called a partnership?

    GSW: In Israel, you don’t marry an individual. You marry into a family. Essentially all the men younger than your husband in a family are also potential husbands to the

    May 24, 2025 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo
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