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Can you tell us more on Counselling?
I was going to teach on words and mood creation—and the previous discussion served as a springboard for it. The way words work in ministration is different from everyday communication.
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Sir, for the lady above. If she contacts you and complains of men ghosting on her and shows you that chat as an example, how would you counsel her? Carrots or sticks?
Both. What I usually do is describe her to herself—without saying it’s her—and then ask her to judge the person I’ve just painted in words. She’ll respond by saying things
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Sir, what of when you are counseling or reach out to someone and the person refuse to talk about the situation? Like asking you what God is saying
If someone asks you, “What is God saying?”, kindly let them know that you’re not a spiritual consultant. Every believer is supposed to hear from God personally. If God has
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This word ever learning and never coming to the knowledge of the truth…I refuse to accept it as my reality. Now, it seems nothing is sinking in my spirit, nothing makes sense, and fornication has now become so intense. I desire to break free. I’ve been taking the daily confession, paying attention in class(PSSBC), praying in tongues, attending every meeting but I’ve not changed. I want to live a life of purity. I’ve messed up too many times and I’m so ashamed of myself. I need deliverance. Why do I keep feeling bad.
There’s truly no better way to teach counseling than by engaging with real-life, practical cases. We’re reaching a point where we must move beyond simply praying with people — we
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Sir, what if while doing the counseling and you got something about the issue which is not clear enough or sometimes nothing immediately. How do you handle that? Would rescheduling be advisable?
Close the session and tell the person you will pray and may or may not get back to him or her.