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Eternal Security
Why Many Christians Struggle to Accept Eternal Security—And Why Scripture Teaches It Salvation Is God’s Work from Beginning to End. One of the most important questions a Christian can ask is this: Can someone whom God has truly saved ever be lost? The doctrine or the understanding commonly known as
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The Man Who Chose to Be Misunderstood
In July 1942, a Jewish doctor named Nathan Wallach knocked on the door of a Polish ironworker in the town of Lesko. Wallach and his wife, Jafa, were about to be transferred to a labour camp. Their three-and-a-half-year-old daughter had nowhere to go. Would Józef Zwonarz take her? Zwonarz said
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Single Eyes
Dear Oyinye, There are nights when I look at you, and I cannot tell if I am looking at home or at a beautiful place I am only passing through. I keep wondering if love always comes with an expiration date folded somewhere inside it and hidden so carefully that
July 15, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
6 Truths You’ll Learn After Divorce
There’s nothing easy about divorce. It’s a life-altering decision. One that announces the failure of something you hoped, once upon a time, would last until “death do us part.” I once heard a comedian say that there are no happy endings in marriage, as it either ends in death
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Dear Ladies
Dear Ladies, Every single one of these qualities — kindness, emotional stability, compatibility, voice, boundaries, warmth, independence, sends the same signal to a man’s nervous system… you are safe to bond with. Not “you’re pretty.” Not “you’re fun.” Not even “you’re a good person.” Those are all surface
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Have Your Own Life
We’re told men want to feel needed. That they want to be the hero, the provider, the one who rescues you. And sure, some men want that. But the research on what creates lasting attraction tells a different story. Remember that study on mate preferences? The one where compatibility
July 15, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo