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Christians and Prophetic Duty
Some groups teach that Christ gave His Church, as an institution, a direct command to “prophesy” to the nations – warning the world of coming judgement as its central, defining task. This claim is often built by combining verses that were spoken to specific individuals under specific circumstances. It’s worth
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When You Are Done
I think we usually imagine losing feelings as something dramatic. You stop loving someone, and you have a big conversation. Like something happens and suddenly, everything is different. But I’m not sure that’s how it usually works. Sometimes you don’t even notice yourself pulling away. You still reply, make plans,
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Emotional Patterns Men Must Work On
Your boyfriend didn’t learn to shut down in a textbook. He learned it at the kitchen table. He learned it watching his dad fix the sink instead of talking about why he was sad. He learned it in the silence after his mother asked what was wrong and his father
August 28, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
This Is How You Identify Love
Most relationship content focuses on red flags — the signs something is wrong, the patterns to watch for, the behaviours that should have you reconsidering. That content exists for good reasons, and I’ve written some version of it myself. But I’ve been thinking lately about the opposite question. Not what
August 28, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Control Is Not Love
You may not think of yourself as controlling. In fact, you’d roll your eyes if someone told you you were. Yet deep down you know better, because you have seen the manifestation of control within yourself: the obsessive worrying, the incessant thinking, the desperate need for assurance and the unease
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What Do You Want?
If I asked you to name the most important question in Christianity, what would it be? Perhaps you would say, “Do you believe in God?” or maybe, “Have you accepted Jesus as your Lord and Saviour?” Depending on your theological tradition, it might be something about sin, salvation, heaven, hell,
August 28, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo