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Friendships
How do you know if someone’s your friend? You can tell them bad news, and they’ll listen. They won’t tell you you’re stupid, and why that bad thing happened to you, and how something worse happened to them once, and you derail the whole conversation or judge you as if
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The Problem Is Islam
You had a Christian as President You had a muslim as Vice President You established Sharia law in certain states under our democracy It didn’t improve the economic condition of your region It scored you a bit of political popularity among your ignorant and religiously programmed supporters We swallowed it
June 9, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
A Letter From Germany II
The couple topology of an affair involves two married couples — four individuals in total — with the relationship forming between one married person from each couple. In this configuration, the affair is often driven by the pursuit of novelty and emotional or romantic excitement without the intention of long-term
June 9, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
How To Identify An Emotionally Damaged Person
They don’t want love — only control What you’re feeling deep inside — it’s real. You just don’t know how to explain it yet. The relationship that once felt warm and exciting… now feels heavy. Like you’re slowly losing yourself, little by little, every single day. And if you’ve ever sat in front of
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Measuring The Viability Of A Relationship II
Sometimes You Have To Help Couples End A Bad Union About five years ago, I started doing something controversial: When I assess that a relationship is truly over, I shift from “saving the marriage” to “ending it as healthily as possible”. I don’t announce this. I don’t say “I think
June 9, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo -
Measuring The Viability Of A Relationship
Within the first session or two, marriage counsellors make silent assessments about whether this relationship is viable. We look for criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling. Particularly contempt. Research shows that contempt is the single best predictor of divorce. When I see genuine contempt — not frustration or anger, but true
June 9, 2026 by Gbenga Samuel Wemimo