I wholeheartedly believe that both partners in a relationship should be ready, willing, and able to give in their own ways to their partner. That is just part of being ready for a monogamous relationship. It is also true, however, that no matter how naturally giving or kindhearted someone is, they do not want to be taken for granted.

Nobody wants to feel that their efforts are overlooked or unappreciated, especially in matters of the heart. We’ve all felt this way at some point in our lives…perhaps at work, or around our friends, or even within our own family.

A relationship, though, should be a space where we feel valued and appreciated. We need to actively and consistently show our gratitude and appreciation for not just what our partner does…but who our partner is. Grateful for their heart, soul, compassion, kindness, and presence in our lives. They’ve chosen you as their only “person,” after all, that is not a decision that can or should be taken lightly and is certainly worth holding close to one’s heart.

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