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Parallel Intimacy: A Cure For Loneliness in Long-Distance Relationships
How We Learned to Be Together While Being Alone? I experienced this when I dated a lady some years ago. We were both living in separate states, and work plus
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PEOPLE PLEASERS
There are people on this planet who go through life with the fear or concern of being disliked. They always want to be in the Good Books of other people.
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STAND ALONE!
I am an Architect, I design and build houses as a profession. I have designed and built all types of houses- residential, commercial, schools, churches, temples, hospitals, hotels, etc. I
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THE EVENING NEWS
Some time ago, I went to visit a friend. The friend’s 2 sons were playing outside the house in their compound. The older son did something to the younger son
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A Letter From Jos
Dear Brother Gbenga, There was a feeling I used to have when my husband was courting me. Anytime I knew I was going to meet him or that he would
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Buying Happiness
I had a sit-down with a lady. We spoke for a while. She said she told her boyfriend that she was travelling to Botswana for a two-week holiday. I asked
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The Paradox of Modern Dating
There is a strange paradox in modern dating: the men with the strongest principles often have the hardest time building a stable personal life. In theory, it should be the
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Conquering Bitterness
A few years ago, I asked my father how he was doing. He paused for a second. “Fine,” he said. Then he asked if I’d seen where he’d left his
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Managing Your Relationship
A modern man or woman will go to work on their worst day. Tired, hurt, angry, completely unmotivated — he or she still gets up, shows up, and does his
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Tied Hands
He: At twenty, I dated an 18 year old. She was the love of my life. She gained admission to a state university. I was already an undergraduate at a