GSW: The Word of God changes us. There is nothing that reprograms us like the Scriptures. To be candid, and I mean brutally candid. There is more in every marriage, but the more is not going to come from outside. There is more to every life, the more is not going to come from outside. If I want to be richer or more successful, I won’t do so by robbing a bank or committing fraud. That will be looking for more outside of myself which will land me in full problem. To be better than you are, you have to dip your hands inside of yourself and bring out the more that you are looking for.

Once a wife tells the husband I am going abroad to study for two to three years and I am not taking you with me. The husband should just start shopping for another wife. I can give examples of over 40 cases I had gotten involved in this year alone. It is a convenient way of leaving a marriage. Just escape abroad and start afresh. I got involved in a case just two months ago. Husband was left in Nigeria for four years
with two boys. Wife said she was going abroad for masters. Wife called me to pray because she wanted to come home and pick the children to take them to the US but she was scared her husband won’t allow. She said she was told husband is now seeing another woman. I said let us meet. She dodged.

I insisted. When we met eventually she was pregnant. Six months pregnant and she was accusing hubby of cheating so that she can carry the children. I got another one last month. Two months old marriage. They got married on a Thursday. Wife’s visa came out the following Monday. Wife went to the UK. One month later, wife had moved in with another lover. Husband called me. I intervened. Wife said she does not want to come back to Nigeria. Husband should move on.