GSW: A boy fought another boy. The mother of one boy said “Go back and fight him again, don’t be timid, go and win that fight before coming back here” The mother of the other boy said “We don’t fight in this family, you have brought shame on me and your father by raising your hand in a fight” Which parent is right? Which parent is wrong? Without context we can’t know which parent is right or wrong. Both parents are right depending on context. If your son is being bullied, as a parent, option one is right. If your child is a bully, as a parent option two is right. That is what Ecclesiastes 3 was referring to. Character means what you did plus why you did it and when. There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: 2 a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot, 3 a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build,